"She was silent for a little while, then told me that I had no right to judge, because I wasn't married, had no children, and hadn't moved out of my apartment since graduating. Then, I pointed out that this is what I was talking about- she was making bad choices, but nobody else could point that out and it wasn't fair. Especially because her choices had an impact on others, and mine didn't."

"This makes a lot of sense to me. Their identity has been corrupted by their pathological parent. Sometimes they are suicidal, depressed, suffering with different physical ailments. Often struggling with body image or body dysphoria (similar to gender dysphoria). They are feeling really out of sense in their body, emotions, in their mind they think there is something really wrong with me. They may migrate to be transgender to "